My wife, God bless her, has an interesting strategy when she goes to the movies. Before the film starts, she always politely discusses, with people on either side of her, the issue of mobile phones.
"I've come to enjoy this movie and will be very disappointed if you use your mobile phone during this session," she says. "Please keep your phone turned off so we can all enjoy the movie." She sometimes gets a surprised blank stare in response, but most people make sure their phones stay silent. Maybe they are wondering what this 'mad' expatriate woman would do should they dare use their mobile after her warning.
In Singapore, movie seats are numbered on tickets and movie-goers here are well trained about this. Yes, the movie theatres run warnings on the screen about turning phones off and not using video cameras (take note, pirates), but, never-the-less, people seem to believe that using your mobile during a movie screening is acceptable.
There are systems where movie complexes can electronically block mobile phone signals, preventing their use during screenings, but I haven't seen this in Singapore. Too often, those annoying mobile phone screens light up during a movie, or someone starts a conversation, generally distracting everyone at some key point in the film.
Perhaps theaters need to confiscate mobile phones, or have special lockers where devices can be stashed before people are allowed to enter the cinema? Or perhaps cinema attendants, sometimes now equipped with night-vision goggles to watch for pirates handy-camming films, should also warn people who fire up their devices, even just to SMS.
The reason I raise this issue is that I've just read about an Intel survey which found that modern day mobile phone etiquette is getting worse by the day. People are increasingly giving priority to their communication devices ahead of common manners.
The research found that 75 per cent of the 2,000 adults surveyed believe mobile manners have worsened since 2009. And more than 90 per cent said they have witnessed first-hand poor mobile behavior -- activities ranging from texting while driving or walking to talking on a mobile phone in a public restroom.
How often have you had someone stop a conversation in mid-sentence, to answer their mobile, without even an apology afterwards?
What about noisy mobile phone discussions in your ear while you sit on the bus? Here in Singapore, a behaviour has developed where people hold their hands over their mouths while talking on a mobile, which at least is an effort to be discrete and polite.
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