Firing people is awkward and uncomfortable, even if they were a habitual nonperformer," says Stephen Van Vreede, resume strategist and IT career coach. Assuming you're a human being, letting an employee or multiple employees go may be one of the most difficult and emotional experiences you have to perform as a boss.
Remember: If it's that way for you, its magnitudes worse for the person(s) being let go. There are no secrets here--this is tough work but if you are respectful and empathize with the person(s) being let go it will make this emotional moment easier for everyone.
Famed Australian television presenter and financial analyst Paul Clitheroe once said, "For many people a job is more than an income- it's an important part of who we are. So a career transition of any sort is one of the most unsettling experiences you can face in your life."
If you've ever had to sit idly while a corporate executive or a manager/friend explains why you're being let go, then this statement may have special meaning to you. If you are lucky enough to have never been fired then kudos to you, but the reality is it can happen to even the best of employees.
People are normally terminated for one of several reasons including breaking company policy or rules, downsizing/reorganization or poor performance. In any one of these three situations, it shouldn't be surprising to the employee that he or she is being let go. "For a reduction in force, let's face it, there will be rumors flying anyway. Doing it in stealth mode is going to be a serious challenge. If it's a performance issue, it should come as no surprise either," says Van Vreede.
So the decision has already been made to let someone go and it's your job to handle it. Where do you start? Step 1, says Cathy Phillips, senior employee engagement manager at Winter Wyman, a staffing firm that works throughout the Northeast. "Start with your HR [department] just to make sure you don't do anything wrong that the company will get in trouble for down the road. Talk to them first."
The Bearer of Bad News
In most situations experts agree that the direct supervisor should be the one to deliver the bad news. "In my experience the supervisor should be the one to deliver the news because they have the working relationship with the employee. Having said that, you want to make sure that supervisor is prepared. Best practice is to have a third person in the room when that conversation takes place, ideally someone from HR," says Phillips. This is to prevent it from turning into a frustrating he said/she said type situation.
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